Showing posts with label birthfather's rights. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthfather's rights. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Another Win For All Birth Fathers!

Jackson:

We still have hope that one day we will be able to be re-united with you and be able to be in your life and get to know you. We pray everyday for your safety and well being. We hope that you are being loved as much as we would love you. The holidays come with family, love, and laughter, and we always struggle celebrating these without you. This past holiday, Thanksgiving, we felt thankful to have you a part of our family, we felt grateful knowing where you are at, and that you are in good hands. We felt thankful that one day we will get to be a part of your life and get to be a part of your family. Jackson, we love you so much! We will never stop fighting for you. With each of these Utah Supreme Court decisions ruling in the favor of father's who's rights were wrongfully terminated gives us hope that the justices will see the truth in your case as well. We are waiting for some things to settle with the lower district court before we can move forward to the Utah Supreme Court. Jack, we love you with all our hearts.

Love,

YOUR FIRST FAMILY



The Salt Lake Tribune


Florida man gets a shot at being a dad

Adoption • Utah’s high court says father needs to have a chance to build a relationship with his child.


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Leah Hogsten | Tribune file photo Florida resident Ramsey Shaud, left, appeared in Utah's Supreme Court, with his attorney Daniel Drage, in 2011 in his parental rights case.

In a 3-2 decision, the Utah Supreme Court has found that Utah’s adoption law was “constitutionally defective” in depriving a Florida father a “meaningful chance” to develop a relationship with his child after a notice of paternity he filed was not recorded in a timely manner because of the state’s then four-day workweek and a federal holiday.

The high court reversed a decision by a trial judge who found that Ramsey Shaud had acted too late to stop the adoption of his daughter, born in January 2010. The justices sent the case back to the lower court to reconsider whether the Utah Office Vital Records and Statistics received Shaud’s paternity notice before the child’s mother placed her for adoption.

Shaud alleges, the court noted, that he attempted to protect his parental rights in a timely fashion but that the office “negligently delayed” entry of his notice in the state’s paternity registry, which the trial judge used as a basis of finding he had moved too late to have any say in his daughter’s adoption.

“We conclude that the district court’s interpretation of the [adoption act’s] strict compliance standard poses an unacceptable risk of erroneous deprivation of unwed fathers’ rights,” the court said. It also said that protecting the state’s compelling interest in timely adoption decisions did not require that a paternity petition be considered filed only at the time it was entered into the registry.

“Rather, we hold that Mr. Shaud’s notice must be considered filed when Vital Records received it, because, at that point, Mr. Shaud had done all that he could to strictly comply with the act,” the court said.

The opinion was written by Justice Christine Durham, who was joined by Justices Ronald Nehring and Jill Parrish. Chief Justice Matthew Durrant and Justice Thomas Lee dissented.

The court heard oral arguments in the case in September 2011. It issued the decision Friday, but it was not posted on the court’s website until Tuesday after The Salt Lake Tribune inquired about the ruling.

“I honestly never thought this day would come!” Shaud said Tuesday. “All I can do is smile. ... [It has] restored my faith in the judicial system out there, and I look forward to getting our case going in the lower court.”

Daniel Drage, his attorney, praised the justices for thoroughly considering the constitutional implications and due-process pitfalls of Utah’s current adoption law. Drage said he and his client were looking forward to getting back in court for a hearing to “establish that he has perfected his rights as a father, that notice was timely received by the Bureau of Vital Records and that he will have an opportunity to be a father to his daughter.”

While the decision assures Shaud, 26, a shot at making the argument that he acted in time to protect his parental rights, it does not guarantee he’ll get to parent his child — a matter that will likely involve numerous additional court hearings in which his fitness as a parent will be weighed against those of the child’s adoptive parents and what is in the child’s best interests.

How it began • Shaud learned in 2009 that 19-year-old Shasta Tew, with whom he had a casual relationship, was pregnant. When Tew said she didn’t want to raise the baby, Shaud, who was then 22, said he would take responsibility and care for the child. After Tew began pursuing an adoption, Shaud refused to sign off and moved quickly to protect his parental rights for the coming baby, due in February 2010.

He signed with the Putative Father Registry in Florida, where both live, so he would be notified of any adoption proceedings. Five months later, Tew sent Shaud a note saying she planned to visit Arizona and Utah for the holidays. He feared her real intent was to go to one of those states to place her baby for adoption.

Shaud easily filed with Arizona’s registry but had trouble finding information about what he needed to do in Utah to protect his rights. At the time, Utah’s Department of Health did not provide a link to putative-father forms online; it added a link in January 2012.

Shaud hired Drage, who filed the required paternity petition in court Jan. 12, 2010, and the same day faxed a copy to the Office of Vital Records and Statistics. At the time, the state followed a four-day work schedule so it was closed that Friday, as well as the following Monday, which was a federal holiday. The office did not file Shaud’s paternity notice until Jan. 20, 2010.

By then, Tew had already given birth — Shaud’s daughter was born prematurely Jan. 15, 2010. On the same day Shaud’s paternity paperwork was officially filed, Tew relinquished her parental rights and the infant was placed with adoptive parents through A Act of Love Adoptions in Orem.

Shaud tried to fight the placement in a lower court, but a trial judge said he had acted too late to protect his parental rights under Utah’s adoption law. Shaud appealed.

The high court’s ruling is the second decision in a father’s favor this year. In January, it ruled a Colorado father was improperly denied a say in his daughter’s adoption and also sent the case back to a lower court for a rehearing.

In that decision, the court said Robert Manzanares did not know and reasonably could not have known that a birth and adoption would take place in Utah and that he needed to protect his rights here. Manzanares had filed a paternity petition in Colorado and had been assured by his daughter’s mother that she had no intention of placing the child for adoption, something the woman also told a Colorado judge. Manzanares learned about a week after his daughter’s birth Feb. 17, 2008, that she had been born in Utah and placed for adoption.

After the Utah Supreme Court ruling, a Utah judge dismissed Manzanares’ case so that it could proceed in Colorado. His parental rights were affirmed and, under the guidance of a child psychologist, he has slowly been introduced to and allowed to build a relationship with his daughter. She was told in October that Manzanares is her daddy.

A matter of timing • In Shaud’s case, the Vital Records office told A Act of Love that no paternity filing had been made; 45 minutes later, it officially logged Shaud’s paperwork.

But a notice “cannot be considered filed only upon its entry into Vital Records’ registry,” the high court said. “This definition of ‘filed’ creates unfair uncertainty as to the proper filing date and infringes upon Mr. Shaud’s opportunity interest in protecting his relationship with his daughter.”

The majority referred several times to the court’s decision in the 2007 case, in which it held that the state’s adoption law had to “avoid due process implications that arise when a father’s compliance is not within his power.”

It also said that Shaud’s attorney did not need to specifically use the “magic words” of “due process” in the lower court to raise that constitutional argument. The court pointed out the attorney had made numerous other references about the rights at stake. The fact that a copy of his court filing was not included with the notice did not matter because Vital Records accepted his filing and it was not the basis of the lower court’s ruling, the majority also said.

Those two points were the basis of the dissent. Justice Lee said the majority was “jumping the gun” and reading “far too much into the arguments Shaud presented in the district court.” He found that Shaud had not preserved a constitutional challenge but merely “questioned the fairness of the statutory scheme on policy grounds.”

“When Shaud complained that he had done everything within his control, he was not asserting the due process point that the court today embraces in his opinion,” Lee wrote in the dissent. “He was merely seeking, in other words, to protect his rights under the statute in light of his vague concerns about fairness and broad epithets about the state’s carelessness.”

brooke@sltrib.com

Twitter: @Brooke4Trib



Saturday, October 13, 2012

A letter to Jack

                                                                                                                                                  October 12, 2012
Dear Jack,
I was just thinking about you again today, and wanted to write down some of my thoughts so that one day when you come home you will know how much we have missed and loved you while you were away.
Today is Friday, one of my favorite days of the week because I get to tend your cousin Boston while his mommy and daddy are at work.  This morning Boston and I played cars and trucks in the toy room, we raced over the tracks, then the carpet and finally we went a little crazy and drove them over all the other toys, chairs and tables.  We crashed into each other and laughed more and more with each wreck, it was so much fun.  Then we went for a walk. We have two strollers still hanging in the garage one for you and one for Boston, as I reached for one my heart sank a little more because I wished once again you could be here with us. 
When we came home after enjoying seeing a fire engine, garbage truck and talking to the workers who are building a house down the road,  we walked past the wall of family pictures where the one and only picture of you is hanging.  Boston stopped and pointed to your picture and said Jack.   I love to see this photo every day; it reminds me what a blessing you are to have in our family. 
After lunch and more silly games Boston and I laid down to watch Monsters Inc, and it wasn’t long before he fell asleep which is where he is right now.  We will try to go outside to swing and jump on the tramp if it isn’t raining after he wakes up, if it is raining maybe we will just stay inside and make some cookies. 
Jack, I pray every day for you and your adoptive parents, and hope you are making wonderful memories together.  I hope that you are playing cars and trucks, going on long walks to enjoy the fresh air, and taking in all the beautiful flowers and trees.  I pray that you are seeing the world as it should be seen through a child’s eyes.    You deserve to feel loved, warm, cherished and protected.   I know your adoptive family through your adoptive dad’s side they are very kind and loving people, which does help us to know that you are in a good home.
Jack, we think of you daily. Whenever I see a blonde mommy with a toddler about your age I do a double take, and my heart skips a beat.   There are times I am in the same neighborhood where your grandparents live because your Great Aunt and Great Grandpa live just down the street.  I want to stop and just ask how you are doing, maybe to see a recent picture, to plead to let your daddy see you just once.  It breaks my heart how close you are, but we can’t reach out to you because of the lawyers. I am certain that your daddy’s side has not been shared with 100% honesty with your adoptive parents.  
Boston has now gone home with his mommy, after he woke up from his nap. It turned out to be a cookie making day because of the weather.   Your daddy stopped by for a few minutes to say hi to Boston on his lunch break from work. They played cars, tickled and chased each other for a while until they both were on the floor laughing.  Boston loves his Uncle Jake, and Jake loves his little buddy Boston, but he has a missing part of his heart where you will always fit.  He loves you so much.
Aunt Hailey came home just before Boston left and they were able to sit and read together while his mommy and I listened.  Jack, I am writing to you because this is the only way I have to reach out to you so far.  I know one day you will come home and know the truth why you weren’t with us for a while.  But, until then I don’t want you to miss out on the simple days that you should have had with us. 
I pray that you had a wonderful day today that you played and giggled, watched the rain on the windows, ate warm chocolate chip cookies and felt loved.
I love and miss you little Jack

Love Grandma Jenny

Friday, August 24, 2012

All in.

Jake is all in. We will APPEAL! Fasten your seat belt, it's gonna get bumpy. We can't wait to get before the Utah Supreme Court and have Jake's constitutional rights and due process motions ruled on. There is no doubt, that Jake and Jackson will be reunited. If only the process was quicker. It will probably take about 2 years for a ruling.
 
Jake not only chose to continue to be with his son, but to get the laws changed in Utah and protect others from this happening.
We will never stop until justice prevails.
 
Thank you again for all of the positive words of encouragement. We sincerely appreciate all of the support we have received.
 
“Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice.
It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.”
William Jennings Bryan
 
"Even if things don't unfold the way you expected, don't be disheartened or give up.
 One who continues to advance will win in the end.”
Daisaku Ikeda

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

The news...

Sorry to keep you all waiting in anticipation of the news from Judge Hamilton. On Saturday, we received the devastating news that our motion to intervene in the adoption was DENIED. Judge Hamilton solely could not rule in Jake's favor due to not filing timely according to Utah Law, even though he stated that the birth mother, Whitney Pettersson Rathjen Demke, defrauded Jake intentionally out of his child. The judge did not even address the constitutionality issues or due process. Our attorney feels that he didn't even want to address this and let the Supreme Court rule on this.

Jake is needing time to think through the next step in this emotional journey. Prayers, thoughts, and positive vibes sent his way would be greatly appreciated.

Hopefully, we will have more news on the what is to come next in the coming week. We will never give up on Jackson and will never stop fighting to get the laws changed here in Utah. More and more we keep seeing father's being denied the rights to parent their children. WHY??? Why would we deny a willing, and capable father the right to parent, when so many children grow up without a father figure or role model in their life and strive to have one.

We will never back down until the law is fair for ALL parties involved in adoption. All meaning, birth mother, birth father, adoptive parents and most importantly the CHILD. We need to seriously consider as society what message we are sending to our future generation of children who are placed for adoption illegally, unethical and based on fraudulently practices.

What will the adoptive couple say to Jackson when he asks why he has dark hair and not light hair like his parents? Will they lie to him and not tell him he is adoptive? Or will they only tell him bits and pieces about his adoption? Surely, they can't answer the truth, that he is with them due to them winning in court based on fraud, lies and dishonesty.

We will have Jackson in our lives one way or another. It's only a matter of time. We hope and pray everyday that Jackson is loved, cared for and is a healthy vibrant child. If only we knew for certain.....


JACKSON MICHAEL STRICKLAND
we love you and will never give up!!!

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

10 days or less...

**Update**
Thank you so much for the many thoughts, prayers, comments and concerns. Court went very well. Judge Hamilton really let Wes our attorney share our side of the story and explain how so many things were not dealt with properly. He brought up that Jake's constitutional rights were violated, he touched on the enormous amount of fraud by Whitney, LDS Family Services, and opposing counsel David Hardy and Larry Jenkins, as well as Jake's due process to rightfully be heard was not given. Court lasted 3 hours and we thought the Judge would be ruling on allowing us to intervene that day, but after hearing argument, he said he was in a conundrum and need to take it under advisement. The Judge said he would have a ruling within 10 days of his decision.
He will be ruling on 3 things: 1. Motion to Intervene in the Adoption 2. Motion to Disqualify Opposing Counsel, due to them being a witness to the finalization of the adoption 3. Motion for limited discovery.

Obviously, we need to intervene for this to be a victory for Jake and Jackson. After that is determined, we have filed a motion for the adoption decree to be set aside, so we can move to an evidentiary hearing to present our case.

We had so much family support there it was wonderful. Thank you again to all of our blog followers, Facebook fans, and all of you who have shown interest in our case. This will be HUGE if we can win in the district court and not have to be the ones appealing to the Supreme Court.


**A big shout out to Wes Hutchins. What a wonderful attorney. He knew every detail inside and out to our case, and was there with a color coded timeline as well as 8 20 x 30 blown up pictures. It was FANTASTIC!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Tomorrow.

Tomorrow could be one of the best or worst days yet to come in this ongoing emotional rollercoaster. The best outcome we could hope for would to be allowed to intervene in the adoption, have opposing counsel off of the case due to witnesses in the finalization of the adoption and to allow Jake to be able to meet his son, Jackson Michael Strickland, for the first time. There will be many emotions that will take place tomorrow and we can only hope we get to fill joy in our hearts, rather than crushing as we have felt so much over the past 20 months.

"Do not fear to repeat what has already been said. Men need the truth dinned into their ears many times and from all sides. The first rumor makes them prick up their ears, the second registers, and the third enters."
--Rene Theophile Hyacinthe LaÎnnec

Court:
Tomorrow 2:00 PM
Location: Layton Courthouse
435 North Wasatch Drive
Layton, Utah

Monday, July 30, 2012

Rescheduled Once Again...

Court has been rescheduled once again. Judge Hamilton realized the extent of our case and has requested longer than 30 minutes for our case to be heard. Court will now be on
Monday August 6th at 2:00 PM
at the Layton Courthouse.

The address is 435 North Wasatch Drive
Layton, UT 84041.

 Sorry again for the change it date, but this really gives us hope
that this Judge will see through the all the lies, fraud and corruption.

Friday, April 20, 2012

The wheels are turning...

Congratulations to John Wyatt, in his Virgina Supreme Court ruling, to pursue damages against A Act of Love, Larry Jenkins, Laraine Moon, and the adoptive (stolen) parents of Baby Emma.

Every father fighting and winning is just one step forward for Baby Jack. This is great news and we can't wait to hear what happens with Robert Manzanares this upcoming week in his custody battle.

Things keep happening for the good, and they won't stop until justice is served for all father's out there. This wouldn't be possible without all of the media attention, social media, and the viewers and readers like you that keep spreading the word about the atrocity that is occuring in Utah with adoption.

Keep spreading the word about Baby Jack and all the other birthfathers and together we can make a difference.

We are still waiting for a court date. We have submitted a few new motions that need to have a response in the next week, which will probably be followed by an extension, but it's a GREAT step in our case. We can't wait to share.

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Birth Father's Unite

Bobby Navares. Jake Strickland. Robert Manzanares

One step closer for Rob!





Full Story
Colorado father’s custody fight moves back to his home state

Adoption • It’s the next step in precedent-setting case.


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Paul Fraughton | The Salt Lake Tribune Rob Manzanares and his mother, Elizabeth, stand next to their attorney Jennifer Reyes, right, after a Wednesday hearing on the custody of Rob Manzanares' daughter, given up at birth without his consent.

A birth father’s four-year battle for custody of his daughter will now move to a Colorado court after a Utah judge agreed Wednesday to dismiss the child’s adoption.

Third District Judge Paul Maughan said he wants to review the landmark Utah Supreme Court ruling that sent Colorado resident Rob Manzanares’ case back to the lower court but, barring any obstacles, will sign an order dismissing the adoption, which had not been finalized. That will allow a Colorado court to fully take over the dispute. Maughan also ordered that Manzanares’ name be added to his daughter’s birth certificate.

Manzanares, who has fought for his right to parent his daughter since before her birth in 2008, broke down in tears outside the courtroom at the prospect of soon being reunited with her.

“It’s just a step closer to getting to see my girl I’ve been fighting for for so long and I just can’t wait to hold her and bring her home where she belongs, with her family,” said Manzanares of his daughter, who will remain with her prospective adoptive parents for now.

While the Colorado judge has agreed to put the case on a fast track, Manzanares still has a legal fight ahead of him.

The child’s adoptive parents, relatives of the birth mother, have asked the Colorado judge to terminate Manzanares’ parental rights. Carie Terry, the birth mother, also has filed a conditional motion requesting that her parental rights be terminated in Colorado but only after Manzanares’ rights are terminated. Terry’s rights were already terminated in Utah as part of the adoption proceeding here.

Despite that, Manzanares is optimistic the end line is near.

“I believe Colorado will do what’s right and make a determination of the best interests of my daughter,” he said. “No other father should have to go through this and, more importantly, no child should have to go through this. I’ve been asked by many fathers for help and assistance. My biggest thing for them is just be very patient and don’t give up hope and keep fighting and do it in a peaceful manner.”

Attorney Larry Jenkins, who represents the prospective adoptive parents, and attorney David Harding, who represents the birth mother, declined comment after the hearing. The prospective adoptive father also declined comment.

But the tension between the parties was evident as they filed into the courtroom for the hearing when the prospective adoptive father attempted to push Manzanares on the shoulder — but ended up pushing Elizabeth Manzanares, his mother — and called him a “perjurer.”

“I don’t know why,” Manzanares said. “He’s a little upset with me. I have no hard feelings. I hope nothing but the best for them. I just want my daughter back and I’m willing to whatever I can and whatever I need to do to get her back into my arms.”

In a split decision, the Utah Supreme Court ruled in January that Manzanares was improperly denied a say in his daughter’s adoption, with the majority finding he could not have known Terry planned to give birth and place the baby for adoption in Utah due to numerous misleading and false statements she made about her intentions.

In fact, Terry stated in a court filing in a paternity action Manzanares filed in Colorado before the baby’s birth that she had no such plan. Terry gave birth in Utah on Feb. 17, 2008, and appeared in 3rd District Court three days later to relinquish her parental rights; she informed the Colorado court that same day she could not attend a hearing because she was still in Utah visiting a sick relative.

In a subsequent hearing, a Utah judge found Terry had deliberately deceived him and concealed relevant information from judges in Utah and Colorado but allowed the adoption to proceed after ruling that Manzanares had not acted in time to protect his rights under Utah’s stringent statutory deadlines.

In its decision the Utah Supreme Court said it was returning the case to the lower court to determine whether Manzanares met Colorado requirements for establishing paternal rights and shown a full commitment to his parental responsibilities — questions the Colorado court will now decide.

The decision spotlighted problems birth fathers face in Utah and offers some direction for lower court judges, said Jennifer Reyes, Manzanares’ Utah attorney.

“I believe that birth fathers who are willing to step up to the plate and parent their children should be given an opportunity,” Reyes said after Wednesday’s hearing. “Before she was even born, he was saying to everyone, ‘Hello, I’m here, I want to have custody of my daughter, I want to take care of her, I want to love her.’”

Other biological fathers are carefully watching what happens in the case. Jake Strickland, who lives in South Jordan, and Bobby Nevares of Colorado, who also are contesting adoption of their biological children, gathered outside the courtroom Wednesday to support Manzanares.

“It’s not fair that he would have to come here and be by himself when there are so many other guys who are going through the same thing,” said Strickland, who has renewed his effort to intervene in the adoption of his son, born in 2010.

Added Nevares, whose son was also born in 2010 and placed for adoption in Utah: “It’s not just a one-man fight. Showing our support to him gives him the courage to keep going with it. It gives me a lot of hope to see that somebody is going to keep going as far as he has gone.”

brooke@sltrib.com


© 2012 The Salt Lake Tribune



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Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Come show your support

Tomorrow at 9 AM, please find yourself at the Matheson Courthouse Rm N42 in Salt Lake, Utah, in support of Robert Manzanares. He has a court hearing to dismiss his case in Utah and allow it to move to the Colorado court system, where he has properly been fighting for his rights to parent his biological daughter. Rob's case has seen a first in the Utah Supreme Court where they have ruled against a lower Utah district court ruling and ruled in favor of the father. His case is HUGE for Baby Jack. There is a very, very great chance he will be getting custody of his precious daughter that he never wanted to be placed for adoption.

If you have a free moment, we would love the support.

Thank you!